This was so touching and relatable. 32 years in and I feel like I’m only beginning to let go of some of those childhood insecurities. The same sensitivity that earned me the “princess and the pea” moniker as a child, is what allows me to notice that a friend is hurting and observe details that others don’t. It’s felt like a flaw for so long, but in a way it’s also my biggest strength.
Stunning. Friend, your storytelling continues to be the most generous, mesmerizing, transformative thing I’ve read in a long time. It wakes me up to the world, to myself.
So much to love about this, Kaitlin, but I think my favorite it this line: "My brainstorming begins with beach balls." Thank goodness for you and your stories. They help me continue to say, "I am doing great."
I also like the line “My brainstorming begins with beach balls.” And the reminder that when I get stuck in my comparison mode, others could be having the same struggle with me.
This was so touching and relatable. 32 years in and I feel like I’m only beginning to let go of some of those childhood insecurities. The same sensitivity that earned me the “princess and the pea” moniker as a child, is what allows me to notice that a friend is hurting and observe details that others don’t. It’s felt like a flaw for so long, but in a way it’s also my biggest strength.
Stunning. Friend, your storytelling continues to be the most generous, mesmerizing, transformative thing I’ve read in a long time. It wakes me up to the world, to myself.
You had me with this piece from the beginning.
So much to love about this, Kaitlin, but I think my favorite it this line: "My brainstorming begins with beach balls." Thank goodness for you and your stories. They help me continue to say, "I am doing great."
Whoooooosh. Friend, you’ve just named so many profound things, in such a majestic, captivating way. Never stop writing ❤️
Kaitlyn there is so much good and true in this! It’s hard to get out of our own heads and view ourselves properly. This was a great essay.
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I also like the line “My brainstorming begins with beach balls.” And the reminder that when I get stuck in my comparison mode, others could be having the same struggle with me.
My goodness this is so rich and nuanced. It makes me want to write like this!
This is so rich, Kaitlin. You're figuring it out in real time and on the page and gently letting us in. Thank you.
Love that you are this person: "I asked my parents for a world that rained beach balls."
We're doing great. We're doing great. (Needed those words today!)